The other woman
Elizabeth Abbott is no definition for the term of the other women said that "a woman who has volunteered in a relatively longer a sexual relationship with a man who is not married."
Random Victims or calculated predatorke? How and why some women opt for this kind of life - hiding , lies the secret of eternal, in the shadow of the first women ... Who are these women, what to do if you find yourself in a similar situation, with one or the other ... to these questions, we tried to answer the following text.
Love is an emotion that can not be reined in, controlled, mold. In some situations, however, reason and morality that it should prevail - when it comes to getting into a relationship with a married man. The basic things to understand is that the relationship with a married man is not a link - but the scandal, shameful and sad, for all the players. Another woman, in this situation, certainly not and can not be considered a victim, no matter how many friends this and they themselves referred to as the this felt. A woman who knowingly enters into that type of relationship with the busy man can not be a victim, though, speaking from her point of view, it can do. The real victims are the wife and children, who are ignored, which is lying and who knows what else, lover not. It is therefore desirable to avoid any engaging in this type of relationship, no matter how desirable that the man, a smart and aggressive.
At first, this kind of relationship brings excitement, breaking the current life of leisure in the free woman, a passing hobby, now awakened passion. However, there is a trap. Very quickly, to develop deep emotions and begins to self-deception, because - man got taken care of, always jolly, gallant, sex is good, that is when you need it and when he went to him and ask ... before you know, but you want to first over the other! Married men rarely leave their wives for mistresses, and when it does - where is the guarantee that tomorrow the same thing you do not like you its predecessors? I do not believe his lies. He likes you, unhappy in marriage, the wife does not understand it, will leave ... that is half of that is true, it would be left without a not for yourself. Besides, are you sure that married men left his wife and the security that it has, for the sake of a woman "suspicious moral character" by virtue of having an affair with a married man?
What a woman who finds herself in a situation like this, can I expect? Seeing secret and in remote places, without going to a common holidays (except when you take on a business trip, and then placed in a separate room), spent holidays together without your parents ... and friends will get to know him, you will not sleep at night and wake up in the morning together, and if you become pregnant, will certainly not be with you. This relationship will only make you a person who was heartbroken, sad, depressed and unsure of herself and normal love. The longer you keep yourself in it, more damage is applied himself and his wife and family. Even if you find out for you, so go many stories and "labels" ... if you need in your life that you call home spoon, bitch, and all sorts of bad adjectives? Today or tomorrow, you will become someone's wife, whether you're feeling so bad voice?
On the other hand, there are women who are going to target married men, because they are "certified" men and "pedigree". As soon as you are married, then you are worth more, that they can, better, and therefore are preferred, and "at a higher price" than "ordinary" men. Let's be realistic, we're not Angelina Jolie, or the men Brad Pitt, and all the they are - remember that everything you build on someone else's misfortune and pain are not destined to last and be happy.
For the sake of your sanity and self-esteem, avoid and do not engage in the "forbidden fruit", no matter how cute and attractive either. Do not ask her (in this case illusory) happiness on someone else's misfortune - usually back like a boomerang and even more pain than the one you have to do this. If you are of those women who knowingly and intentionally enter into such relationships - ask yourself why you are doing and what time is achieved, whether the affair is the only way to pick up the ego and self-confidence, a sense of power or something else? Do not do to others what you do not and you want to be done.